Oprah

February 28, 2000

Oprah's guest was Once & Again's Sela Ward. The general topic was embracing aging and Ms. Ward was promoting her Lifetime Television special, "The Changing Face of Beauty," which aired in March of 2000. The specific topic turned to plastic surgery and Ms. Ward commented that it should be about how it makes you feel inside .....

OPRAH: Next, Dixie Carter reveals how her hot love scenes with a 25 year-old prove that older women are sexier than ever. We'll be right back.

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OPRAH: So, Dixie Carter was nearly written off because of her age, but that didn't stop the 60 year-old actress who's now the star of Family Law on CBS. She plays a sassy lawyer entangled in a love affair with a man half her age. Take a look.

In voiceover; this segment was pre-taped on the set of Family Law.

DIXIE: Designing Women was my first real shock abut age. I saw the Pilot -- and my mother was living then -- and I came back home and said, "I'm gonna have to have a face lift." I said, "Ginna, I'm a good 10 years older than anybody else in this cast, and if this show gets on the air, and I get into a hit show at last, I will DIE if I FINALLY find recognition as "the Old One," cause I believe in plastic surgery. If you need it for your head; if you need it for your business. And, in my case, I believe, I definitely needed if for my business.

If you think you can't get a grip on getting older, don't think you're crazy, 'cause it's TOUGH.

This . . . group of really darling college boys were following me out of the coffee shop, and this one . . . followed me . . . a little way and said something kinda . . . flirty. So I (laughing) turned around to say "Well, thank you so much," and this young man looked at me and said, (with a surprised look and expression) "Oh, I didn't know you were so --" (her expression turns blank, then she half smiles and closes her eyes before continuing). And I knew that (her eyes still closed, nodding her head up and down) the next word out of his mouth was going to be "old."

I don't try to pretend that it doesn't bother me, that it doesn't frighten me, and that it isn't there. I don't try to pretend that I don't LOVE it when Christian [Andreas, FL] comes and looks at me on the set as if he MEANS it. I love that. I don't think that we have to be ANGRY fighters against . . . (smiling) against ageism because anger eats . . . us . . . up. It's life. It's "The Life." We have to get used to it.

OPRAH: So true. So true. Thank you so much, Dixie.

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